It’s important to mourn the loss of a relationship.
It’s a death that deserves your full emotional attention.
It’s the death of hopes.
It’s the death of a dream.
It’s the death of a sacred partnership.
It’s the death of a commitment that you put your heart and soul into.
You believed in something and it didn’t work out.
Give yourself the space and privacy to have a full blown messy cry about it.
Forgive yourself for whatever failings you’re beating yourself up for.
Give forgiveness to your former partner having their own emotional and personal path to walk.
Feel all the feels.
Anger, disappointment, frustration, betrayal, grief, and also relief.
Get it all out, and it’s only until then can you walk forward with clarity.
Stay aware to your own tendencies that got you into an unworkable situation and take strength that now you know better.
You know better about others, but more importantly you know better about yourself.
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