Tag: tough decisions
You Say You Love Them But Do You Like Them?
It’s hot and heavy. You don’t know up from down. Emotions are running high. Ecstasy and passion abounds. You are in love. Exhale. Let’s take a moment to detach from the excitement and reflect on what it means to be in a loving relationship. I know it sounds silly but …
Failure Is Like A Bad Meal
You got so excited. You researched. You put in the time. You did all the work. Your entire being bought into this one great thing. You wanted it so bad. You prepared yourself for an amazing experience. You had great expectations. Then it showed up. Whether you cooked it or …
You Wanted To React. You Didn’t. YES!
You felt that moment. Yup, you wanted to go back to the pain cycles that you know. It can be so easy to return to your known patterns. But you didn’t. YOU DID NOT. Nope. You finally held your space and you made it. Fuck yeah you! You finally held …
Is Pain your Identity?
When pain and suffering have become a big part of our lives we can start to believe that pain is the only reality available to us. Don’t get comfortable with your pain. Don’t get comfortable with the idea that you’re a victim. Don’t believe that you have to suffer. Don’t …
Control is the Punchline to Life
Is life feeling out of control? Are you lost in your thoughts? What is shifting for you right now? How does it make you feel? Where are you? Are you growing or are you digging in your heels? Are you excited about change or are you scared? How are you …
Stop Waiting
My life will get better when… Things will slow down when… I’ll start exercising after… I’ll go on a diet after… I’ll wait to break up until after… Things will change when… I’ll start taking better care of myself when… I’m just going to wait until… I’ll start looking for …
Anger is Your Poison
I let myself do it. I was made to feel responsible for someone else’s life. They abused me until I became angry. That anger became rage. And I hid it deep within me. I wanted to keep the peace and be supportive. Then I became ill. Repressing my emotions and …
Time To Say Goodbye
This is it. This is the day to say goodbye. Bid farewell to anything or anyone no longer feeding your heart and soul. Toss with glee or just walk away in silence. You can’t go wrong. Let things go. Feel the pressure lift. Enjoy the freedom. Goodbye past. Hello future! …
Desperate for a Distraction
Whether things are good or bad many of us continue to seek a distraction. Are we just so distraught that we need something more? To make us feel better? Are we just so happy that enough isn’t enough? Because we want more? Whatever it is that you’re seeking a distraction …
