Tag: people
Love Is Not A Guessing Game
If you have any doubt that you are truly loved the answer is, No you are not. You will never question true love. Love is respectful and kind. Love is easy. Love is known. You feel it. Love is contentment. Love is joyous gratitude. Love is peace. Love is safe. …
You Are Not a Failure
I was having a tough moment this morning. The Ghosts of Jeli’s Past came to haunt me. They came to mock me. To run the harsh inner dialogue of personal failure. What I did wrong. When I didn’t stand up for myself. How I ignored my gut feelings. When I …
Addicted to Coping
We all have things we do far too much of, far too often. These behaviors typically start off as a way to cope with an extreme situation. What we convince ourselves of as a way of making ourselves feel better in the moment. However, in most cases we never truly …
You Wanted To React. You Didn’t. YES!
You felt that moment. Yup, you wanted to go back to the pain cycles that you know. It can be so easy to return to your known patterns. But you didn’t. YOU DID NOT. Nope. You finally held your space and you made it. Fuck yeah you! You finally held …
Is Pain your Identity?
When pain and suffering have become a big part of our lives we can start to believe that pain is the only reality available to us. Don’t get comfortable with your pain. Don’t get comfortable with the idea that you’re a victim. Don’t believe that you have to suffer. Don’t …
Anger is Your Poison
I let myself do it. I was made to feel responsible for someone else’s life. They abused me until I became angry. That anger became rage. And I hid it deep within me. I wanted to keep the peace and be supportive. Then I became ill. Repressing my emotions and …
Time To Say Goodbye
This is it. This is the day to say goodbye. Bid farewell to anything or anyone no longer feeding your heart and soul. Toss with glee or just walk away in silence. You can’t go wrong. Let things go. Feel the pressure lift. Enjoy the freedom. Goodbye past. Hello future! …
Desperate for a Distraction
Whether things are good or bad many of us continue to seek a distraction. Are we just so distraught that we need something more? To make us feel better? Are we just so happy that enough isn’t enough? Because we want more? Whatever it is that you’re seeking a distraction …
